Pastor Charles Worley, Marriage Equality, Gay Rights, Progressive Christian
by Rev. Mark Sandlin

Yes sir, we grow 'em on trees in these parts. Yet another NC minister has gone all “king of crazy town” when it comes to talking about homosexuality and the Bible. The idea that two people of the same sex could actually be in love seems to be some powerful mojo when it comes to NC ministers. It is like it sends them into a testosterone induced fervor that completely blinds them to the greatest hits of the Bible like, “thou shall not kill,” and “love thy neighbor.”

Oddly, there was a time when the same kind of fervor blinded the same kind of preachers here in the South and, because of it, a lot of people who were different from them ended up hanging from trees. Maybe it's not so odd. Maybe it's completely to be expected.

Yep, in certain Southern churches, gay is the new black. Realistically, it's not just Southern churches, but with North Carolina's recent passage of Amendment One and the viral YouTube video of the knock-the-gay-out-of-your-kid pastor, it wouldn't be surprising to find a few arborists diligently searching the hillsides of the gorgeous North Carolina foothills for the mythical Tree of Homophobia (which, ironically, I hear has leaves the colors of the rainbow). Just looking at the news over the last several months, while it would seem that all states have ministers that preach exclusion (and even violence) toward our LGBT brothers and sisters, North Carolina does simply seem to be better at it. “We're #1! We're #1! We're #1!”

So, the latest in the parade of “a-minister-REALLY-said-THAT?” circus here in N.C. is Pastor Charles L. Worley (please note my restraint in guessing what the “L” is for... clearly not “love” - okay, my near restraint). He believes, one assumes biblically, that “lesbians and queers” should be locked up inside an electrified fence until they die out. As I understand his argument, up until this point LGBT folk have been reproducing and creating little baby homosexuals and if all the “lesbians” are inside one fence and all the “queers” are inside another, well, they could no longer reproduce and hence - no more homosexual babies.

The logic is just... it's... stupefying? No. That's not quite it. Stupid? Hmmm, let me try that again. Stupid. Bingo! It's just stupid. And the theology one must have to justify that kind of hateful, fear induced, vitriol... well, there's nothing biblical, let alone loving, about it.

HOW YOU CAN RESPOND (the wickedly beautiful part)

I decided to ask a few thousand friends that I have on The God Article's Facebook page to help me come up with a reasonable response - something to call attention to the fact that not all Christians are like Pastor Worley and something to possibly make a difference. There were plenty of suggestions, but I thought one really stood out. Michelle McBriarty suggested, “We should all make a donation in Pastor Worley's name to their local LGBT group.” That's just brilliant.

Not only will it be a wonderful opposing response to Pastor Worley, but it does several other wickedly beautiful things. One, it helps fund organizations who are actively working against this kind of exclusion and bullying. Two, it puts Pastor Worley on their mailing lists!!! And, three, it can really show Pastor Worley and others what creative, non-violent resistance looks like – and that's biblical.

So, in addition to sending in a donation to your favorite LGBT advocacy group in his honor, I'm asking you to do one more thing: download the postcard you find at the end of this post and fill it out. It is addressed to Pastor Worley and says, "A donation has been made to __________ in your name. Thank you for helping advance the fight for equal rights for our LGBT brothers and sisters." Just fill in the blank and mail it to the right Reverend. In a few days, he'll also start receiving all the wonderful educational material from each organization to whom he has “donated.”

When you make a donation in his name be sure to include the address of his church:
Providence Road Baptist Church
Attn: Pastor Worley
3283 Providence Mill Rd.
Maiden, NC 28650

AND (thanks to some blog readers) here's his email to include in the donation information: preacherworley@charter.net.
AND (again thanks to readers) here's his phone number if you need it to fill out your application/donation: (828) 428-2518. BUT seriously, please only use it for filling out forms. Do not call him.

And, for your convenience, my friends on Facebook have helped assemble this list of worthy organizations. Whether it is $5 or $500, you donation can make a difference.

And don't forget to send Pastor Worley this note to let him know about your donation!
pastor_worley_postcard.pdf
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Comments

Austin
05/22/2012 3:05pm

There are lots of Lutherans in North Carolina. Please include Lutherans Concerned/North America http://www.lcna.org/

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05/22/2012 3:06pm

Might as well request they mail him a receipt as well.

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John Mandeville
05/22/2012 3:11pm

Do guys like Worley actually have degrees in theology from a seminary somewhere? If so, those seminaries ought to lose their accredidation!

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mike
05/23/2012 7:11pm

I am gay. Woot woot. We have a seminary in Southern indiana that have produced quite a few (whispered) homa sekshuls.

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Karen from VA
05/22/2012 3:17pm

I did this a few years ago after hearing a eulogy about how much someone hated Jews. The family clearly thought it was funny, and they all came up to me laughing afterwards about what a "guy" my uncle was. Since it was a funeral, I did not speak out, but afterwards, my husband (who is Jewish) and I made a donation to the Holocaust Museum in his honor and they sent a nice little note to the family. It is a brilliant way to speak out about racism and hatred.

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Muriel
05/22/2012 3:52pm

I LOVE it! LOL

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05/22/2012 3:36pm

I love it! GLSEN will be receiving a donation from Pastor Worley shortly.

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05/22/2012 3:40pm

Here is another group that could use support, and they are practically neighbors . . . . :)

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Beverly Bryant
05/22/2012 3:54pm

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Beverly Bryant
05/22/2012 3:57pm

This kind of campaign has been used deliciously in response to the Westboro church when it protests at funerals. A brilliant young man simply set up a table where people could make donations to AIDS support organizations in Phelps' name and he would receive a thank-you card.

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Muriel
05/22/2012 4:00pm

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Sheila Confer
05/22/2012 4:04pm

Might I suggest Empowering Spirits as another possible recipient of this outpouring of good will?

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05/22/2012 4:05pm

I would love to see my organization (Integrity USA - the organization by and for LGBT Episcopalians) on the list as well. We are gearing up for our General Convention and can use every penny Pastor Worley's fan club can spare.

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Fran
05/22/2012 4:07pm

Just got his email off the church website. Be sure to add that to his donation information!
preacherworley@charter.net

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Fran
05/22/2012 4:15pm

preacherworley@charter.net

Got his email off the church website. Might as well include that so he can be put on mailing lists.

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Lloyd/Bob Peacock
05/22/2012 4:42pm

We were thinking of sending Pastor Worley an unsigned cheque for $10,000 to help pay for the electricity, but he would probably forge our names.

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Gene Boecker
05/22/2012 4:47pm

One more to give to:
http://www.lcna.org/ric/about-reconciling-in-christ

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John Canoy
05/22/2012 4:56pm

Thanks Mark for bringing to light what REAL Christian love is all about.

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05/23/2012 4:04pm

Real Christian love is speaking God's word lovingly but truthfully, not watering down the message because someone might be offended. The Bible- scriptures are God's (Jesus) word. What he says is truth. Not what I say or anyone else, like it or not. We need to take his whole word not just the parts that we like or fit our lifestyle. The preacher the article is about doesnt sound very loving and people in the homosexual lifestyle should be treated with love just like anyone else but sin is sin, whether it be that sin or any other sin. My sin or your sin. None is any better or any worse in Gods eyes, it will all send a person to hell unless one repents of their sins and ask jesus to come in and be their lord and savior. Thank God for grace. I know I don't deserve it. A good website to look at is trygod.com

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05/23/2012 4:18pm

Sorry, I meant needgod.com not trygod.com

Tom
05/23/2012 7:43pm

Hope they don't eat shellfish or mix their fabrics!

Cheryel Lemley-McRoy
01/12/2013 10:03pm

Since I began studying Biblical Hebrew I'm learning that the English Bible is often very different from the original Hebrew Bible. Leviticus 18:22 says "Thou shall not lie with zachar as with isha." and Leviticus 20: 13 says If an ish also lie with zachar, as he lieth with an isha,..." The Hebrew word for man is ish. The Hebrew word for woman is isha. The Bible does not say "Thou shalt not lie with ish as with isha. It says zachar. What is zachar? A zachar is a Baal or Molech temple male prostitute. God is not talking about homosexual relationships or He would have used different words. He's forbidding Baal/Molech act of worship with a temple prostitute. The Hebrew word for homosexual, saris (translated elsewhere as eunuch) does not appear here.

Nessie Pruden Siler
05/22/2012 4:56pm

My husband and I will be sending a donation to the Trevor Project in his honor. May he learn from the experience.
Nessie

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Tim Gossett
05/22/2012 5:10pm

Cool idea!! It probably would be good if some of the postcards were sent to his church in care of his deacons (assuming there are any) or if some donations were made on behalf of the whole congregation, who undoubtedly are aligned with his theology.

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05/22/2012 5:17pm

The church I belong to has 1017 open and affirming churches and a huge Lgbt ministry. United Church of Christ.

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joris
05/22/2012 5:20pm

Again I mention that the Extreme Right has as one of its (anti-Christian) principles to reject people who are "not of my kind" of person.

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Jason
05/22/2012 5:47pm

Please consider giving to the Grace Community United Church of Christ also. They are facing foreclosure in 10 days because of the pastor's vocal, unwavering support of the GLTBQ community. A link can be found on the Believe Out Loud website.

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Becky Swanson
05/22/2012 5:49pm

In addition to Lutherans Concerned/ North America, I also made a donation to Minnesota United for All Families, an organization working to defeat the constitutional amendment here in MN.

Thank you, Pastor Sandlin for a creative way to stand against this horror.

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05/22/2012 6:04pm

Hahahahahahaha! Home run, Brother Sandlin! Great way to respond with grace.

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kcponte
05/22/2012 6:06pm

I have a suggestion: Send money in the name of the KKK, here is their website, and incidentally they are having a cross burning Sat. Night. http://www.kkkknights.com/

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Elizabeth Thompson
05/22/2012 6:27pm

Please consider donating to CAMPAIGN FOR SOUTHERN EQUALITY. They are responsible for the very powerful and well-received WE DO Campaign.
http://www.southernequality.org/

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05/23/2012 1:13pm

ALSO THE LGBT CENTER OF RALEIGH!! Which is strangely left off this list of local nonprofits that fight this type of injustice every day IN NORTH CAROLINA.

www.lgbtcenterofraleigh.com

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05/22/2012 6:33pm

I'm a Tarheel by birth, raising and higer education and weep for the craziness eminating from there. One more worthy ministry to support in Albuquerque, NM where I live is Rising Sun Ministries, www.rsministries.com, which works with existing congregations to gently and lovingly help them move toward a position of greater openness and acceptance of all.

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Studio1828
05/22/2012 6:41pm

This is fabulous. The Center on Halsted in Chicago would make a nice addition to the list.

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Larry
05/22/2012 7:19pm

Why not send his cards to one of the 11 properties he owns?

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clea
05/22/2012 7:37pm

There are a lot of LGBT service members in North Carolina. AVER firmly supports the 1st amendment right of military Chaplains who belong to denominations that AFFIRM same-gender marriages to perform those weddings in accordance with their faith while officiating in their capacity as military Chaplains.

http://www.aver.us

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06/11/2012 11:14am

Clea, thank you for mentioning AVER. We received 8 donations as a result of your message. On behalf of our members, from World War II to Afghanistan, thank you for mentioning us.

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05/22/2012 7:42pm

Soul Force is an important group whose mission is to bring truth to the conservative Christian movement. Please add them to your list. Thanks.

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Terri Premo-Peaphon
05/22/2012 8:14pm

Donation made. Let's stop the hate (especially in the name of God and religious faith for goodness sake!)

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05/22/2012 8:45pm

Done!! GLAAD will be sending him the notice of my donation in his honor. Brilliant idea!

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05/22/2012 8:52pm

$35 sent to OneColorado. And for those whose organizations request a phone number for the Reverend, it is: (828) 428-2518.

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Dawn
05/22/2012 8:53pm

Donations made to: Association of Welcoming and Affirming Baptists,
The Trevor Project,
and Canyonwalker Connections

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Mary Lea Bradford
05/22/2012 8:56pm

We did this years ago when trying to make a point with Jesse Helms. A win/win!

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Suzanne
05/22/2012 8:58pm

Please consider adding Mainers United for Marriage to your list. Mainers are voting this fall to make Marriage Equality lawful. Be a part of history and help us pass this law by referendum. For more info see www.mainersunited.org
Just donated to Mainers United for Marriage and sent Pastor Worley an email asking him to make a matching donation. Thanks for the idea.

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Lori
05/22/2012 9:05pm

Might i also recommend the Ali Forney Center? They work with homeless GLBT teenagers in New York City. I'll be making a donation in Cardinal Dolan's name while I'm at it.

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05/22/2012 9:10pm

I just linked this to my site. It's far more clever than my silly rant. Stellar. Just stellar.

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RickK
05/22/2012 9:24pm

Apparently the pastor Worley thinks that homosexuality is genetic. I'd like to hear him explain that. Second thought, I'll pass.

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01/13/2013 2:04am

Right. I thought their big argument was that homosexuals are NOT "born this way" as claimed. More ridiculous logic and irrationality. It is so laughable but serious as these hate mongers are serious...

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Nessie Pruden Siler
05/22/2012 10:05pm

$15.00 to the Trevor project to counteract his hatred...Done! :)

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Martina Dinale
05/22/2012 10:12pm

BRILLIANT !!! As soon as I am not so broke I am squeezing every nickel so hard it pups six pennies I will do so. And Toni Vitanza , great twist ! Also Miss Muriel Hartley , I just have to tell you that I ....I worship your hat. It's just FABULON.

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05/22/2012 10:28pm

In honor of Harvey Milk's birthday, I will be sending my donation to the Harvey Milk Foundation. :)

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05/22/2012 10:34pm

just made a donation to the United Church of Christ (UCC) Coalition for LGTB Concerns.

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Brad TW
05/22/2012 10:43pm

Brilliant!!! Doing the same up here in Canada... Donating $100 to a summer camp for LGBTTQ youth and their allies plus $60 to PFLAG naming he, his wife and church!
Will be mailing out a card to them tomorrow...
Spread the joy internationally ... Let them know that the world is watching and donating
:)

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Jodi
05/22/2012 11:30pm

Here is a better version of the postcard already made out for a donation to Equality North Carolina. It can be printed on Avery 8387 Templates (or equivalent).

Image/Front: http://tinyurl.com/chcnyba
Note/Back: http://tinyurl.com/ckuqppc

I am not affiliated with EqualityNC, but it makes the most sense to give the money to them as they are the official GLBT rights organization in NC - or the Equality organizations in each state normally are the official LGBT rights organization in each state.

I live in Oregon, but have lived in Utah where EqualityUtah was the statewide organization.

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tuesday
05/23/2012 1:39am

great idea! I agree that putting the money into the community that co-exists with this preacher makes the most sense. In addition to equalityNC there is also SONG- southerners on new ground and southern equality both of which are based in NC and both of which are in the links above, and the trans faith in color conference could certainly use donations ( http://transfaithincolor.org/sponsors.php ), a conference focusing on building bridges between faith communities and transgender individuals. also not on the list but very, very, very, very important and extremely underfunded is tranzmission prison project ( http://www.indiegogo.com/Tranzmission-Prison-Project-Fundraising-Campaign ). TPP ensures that LGBTQ prisoners have contact with support in the form of books and penpals. Even if you can't donate money, you could get a pen pal! (TPP is based in NC, too)

Just to give you a few more options for organizations to donate to if you want to get the funds into the communities that share a backyard with this preacher. Also, please don't forget to donate some of your prayer/devotion/etc. time to support the opening and healing of this man's obviously very wounded heart and spirit.

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Kathryn Lamka
05/22/2012 11:49pm

He just made a donation to It Gets Better! Love Dan Savage's efforts to stop bullying.

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Ajdeha
05/23/2012 12:11am

unfortunately, I am a single mother of 2 so cannot make a money donation, but I would like to say that this is simply beautiful and absolutely priceless!

I have too many LGBT friends who are GOOD people and who deserve equal treatment despite having a different lifestyle than I. Be who you are, kids, not what society wants you to be.

This was a brilliant, non-violent idea. Props to you who set this up ^_^

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Scott
05/23/2012 10:56am

You have your heart in the right place! If you can't donate, pass the good word along to people who can. Just as good as a donation, if not better!

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Bill
05/23/2012 12:13am

I feel like he needs signing up to receive some very VERY adult DVD and toys mailings... perhaps from TLA or even the NC based AdamMale gay company. It's been said that once you're on one of these mailing lists... it's practically impossible to get off... tho, after taking a really good look at that old gasbag, I can't help but think its likely already impossible for him to get off anyhowm whether he's kissing a woman or a man. :-)

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P.A.
05/23/2012 12:21am

HATERS!!! Guess that makes you guys SUPREME HYPOCRITES!!! Your hatred of this pastor is EXACTLY what you preach he is doing. Show me ONE scripture where homosexuality is blessed, ordained or liked by God! And please don't quote LOVE ONE ANOTHER!!! That does NOT specifically apply to that topic...you all are NOT loving this pastor...remember that!!!!

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Rusty
05/23/2012 12:35am

How's it hate it was one of GOD's children that this came from

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05/23/2012 3:50pm

Rusty:
Only God (Jesus) knows for sure who is a child of his (Christian, saved/born again) but we can know his word by reading the Bible and finding out what is truth. Does what someone says line up with God's word, not bits and pieces that we like but everything in the Bible whether we like it or not. Although, you have to wonder why would a child of God not like or accept his word as truth and as something holy and good/beneficial. No child of God is offended by the scriptures. Unfortunately, just like the people who attend church, not all are Christians and sadly not all Reverends/Pastors are all saved/born-again. Of course anyone that is a Christian should speak out against sin in truth and love. Here's a goodwebsite: trygod.com

05/23/2012 4:24pm

Sorry, I meant needgod.com

April
05/23/2012 1:30am

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tuesday
05/23/2012 1:45am

I love this man and his wounded heart that causes him to focus on hate instead of focusing on the salve that is god's love for ALL. I pray that god will reach into his heart and heal him, but in order for my prayer to come true this man first must be silent and listen to god.

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P.A.
05/23/2012 10:04am

Total LOL. Just answer my challenge. And thank you for prayong for me. But please, pray to God, not your little god. Thank you!

P.A.
05/23/2012 10:09am

Rusty, the donators &you author hate the outspoken ministers. They useactual hate speech....something THEY take outspoken different minded poeple to court for using/doing...hypocrites!!

tuesday
05/23/2012 10:29am

P.A. I was praying for the minister and not for you, but I'm happy to pray for you, too, if you'd like. I've got god's love in my heart and it is unending so there is certainly enough to go around. my point is that I was not hating the minister, nor am I hating you. I am loving both of you through god's grace alone! <3

05/23/2012 1:58am

Thank you Rusty for making sense. I thought this was a CHristian website but everyone seemstoo support homosexuality. Doesn't Gods word speak out o it?!!!!!!!! I love the people in that lifestyle and would help.anyone and. Would donate to an organization to help people with AIDS but not organizations that promote or support homosexuality. Love the sinner not the sin! I don't condone anyone treating homosexuals with hate or violence but sin is sin and why would anyone that is truly saved|born again say it isn't wrong?!!!! Going against Gods word???????

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David
05/23/2012 10:41am

Would you say "love the sinner, hate the sin" if you were referring to a child molester? How about a serial rapist? Serial killer? That particular piece of religious pablum doesn't stand up to scrutiny, and is the easiest way to justify hating people and things, because you proclaim to be hating the sin when in reality you're hating the person because of what they are. All of the above-mentioned might be able to change what they are, but I can't know that for certain as I've never been any of the above (thankfully). What I do know is this:

I'm the way I am because God wanted me this way, and who am I to say otherwise? I was born gay by the will of God, and I am proud to be who I am by the grace of God.

Tymm Conner
05/23/2012 10:46am

"Love the sinner, hate the sin" is like saying "Love the pizza, hate the toppings".

gibson wehr
05/23/2012 11:22am

Ooh, lots of punctuation. I wasn't really swayed by your comments until I saw all the "?!!!!" and also the "???????"...now, with all that extra punctuation, I am of course convinced of the correctness of your position. Next post maybe you could just also capitalization everything so it can be recognized more easily as a rant. Clearly you are upset and troubled; I do hope you find peace. If, however, you try to lock my dearly beloved GLBT daughter behind some electric fence, it won't be peace that I'll be wishing for you.

Jeff barber
05/24/2012 7:53pm

Your absolutely right. All through the bible this sin is mentioned. I can say also that the signs are all true that our lord is coming for his bride. When people canbe easily convinced that sins are not sins. The Antichrist may be even already here

05/23/2012 9:28am

Sorry, imeant thanks pa not rusty. Other comments not very loving. never heard of a gay Christian. That doesnt make sense!??? Preacher was wrong but so are all these comments/donations. Pray for him and the gay sin also.

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Tymm Conner
05/23/2012 12:48pm

P.A.

First, being gay, bi, or transexual is NOT a "preferred lifestyle choice". Being fat. Being a drunkard. Being a teacher. Being a hairdresser. Being a stay-at-home mother or father. Being a Christian. Being an atheist. Being surfer. THOSE are preferred lifestyle choices. Sexual orientation is "hardwired" from conception and is immutable. NOT a choice. Who would CHOOSE to be something that causes ostracization from family?

Second, I find difficult to believe that you truly feel the hate you seem to be spewing. And, why, may I ask, is coming against someone who calls for complete genocide and pointing out their hate-speak, hateful? It could be, simply, rebuttal against ignorance and hate. Why is preaching from the pulpit, the relative murder of innocents a good and Christ-like thing? Especially given the fact that Jesus Himself ate with tax-gathers, (the lowest of the low in that society at that time), prostitutes, and other sinners. He only ate with the religious leaders once and blessed the woman who annointed His feet and chided the leaders for not really welcoming Him.

Third, when you have studied and learned more about sexuality and the world at large, you might be listened to a little more. Rather than have eyes rolling to the backs of heads.

05/23/2012 2:58pm

Gibson Wehr:
I am truly sorry that your daughter is GLBT, that has to be painful. I dont believe in locking homosexuals behind some electric fence, that's obviously what the pastor in the article believes, not me. Why would any Christian (believer, saved born-again) support that. Just because I hate sin doesnt mean I hate the sinner. Everyone is a sinner (trygod.com) and I certainly don't hate homosexuals, but I cant say it isnt sin if Gods word says it is. Of course that includes all sin, my sin as well as anyone else's sin no matter how much I love someone. I am upset and troubled that so many people are in the dark when it comes to God's word/truth but I have peace, peace in Jesus and his word. Even if I struggle with some sin in my life I will never condone or justify it for my own sake. I pray that God will give me the strength to overcome it or help me with it day by day until he (Jesus) comes back or I pass on to heaven. How bout Exxodus International or other ministries that help people in the Gay lifestyle or their families, they can help you. Jesus can help you, have you ever repented of your sins and invited Jesus into your heart? I'll keep you in my prayers and I'm not being sarcastic.

Bruce Harold
05/24/2012 4:25pm

You've never heard of a gay Christian? Seriously?

Tymm Conner
05/23/2012 12:55pm

My answer to your challenge is this, P. A.

It is too much of an explanation to get into on this thread. However, for a little more of an in-depth look, but not a thorough look, go here:

http://tymmc65.blogspot.com/2012/05/short-answers-to-christians-gay-bashing.html#!/2012/05/short-answers-to-christians-gay-bashing.html

You won't be swayed or even slightly informed, because I can tell you are more than likely a very close-minded person. But, at least it's a response.

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P.A.
05/23/2012 2:35pm

Where the heck do i begin. You all resort to calling people haters just because they disagree with you! Anyone that disagrees with your point of ciew on homosexuality is a HATER...well, you got me shaking in my boots! NOT! Please refer to your own comments & implications &you author stop telling ME what I am or what I truly believe. What I KNOW is this; people have sex with whom ever they WANT. People can have sex (and literally do) with animals, toys, fists, bottles, vegetables ...etc. I emphasize the word CAN! Just because a man is neauseated at even the thought of romancing, much less sexing, a woman, doesn't mean he can't. He could, if he WANTED to, or could stomach it!!! If you are norn with a penis, you were born to have sex with females of like kind. NO ONE on this planet actually KNOWS what he/she was like when they were born.

Btw.. I totally believe in love the sinner &you hate the sin!!! Even for murders &you child moelesters! Lest you ask...I had a brother murdered in 1992the and a child moelester rape me many times before i stopped him . I never talked to the murder but i NEVER hated him either. In fact i tried a few times to bring myself to visit him in jail, but i simply couldn'tt. As for the child moelester, i tried multiple times to talk to him about it &let he refused. However, I told him on his death bed that I totally forgave him &you asked him to accept Jesus as his savior before he died. He didn't do that either. So, please oh high and might homosexual champion people, practice the deep love you spout onto people who don't agree with YOU! Isn't that what you want me to do to you????

P.A.
05/23/2012 2:43pm

Tymm, i asked for Biblical approval/acceptance/ or even tolerance of homosexuality. (Tolerance means : to put up with...NOT bless &you accept!). You can point to all the articles published by homosexuality lovers/haters all you want. You all say God made you that way, BIBLICALLY PROVE IT!!!

Tymm Conner
05/23/2012 3:27pm

Okay, P.A....

You asked for ONE example. I'll give you a biblical example. Although, with your closed mind, you won't take it. But others may appreciate it. AND...it is written in the blog that I wrote and told you to go see.

Let's begin with the culture of the day. The Greco-Roman culture had certain IDIOMS, as do we. For example, we say, "He's out in left field". Granted, we get what we're meaning when it is said. However, those unfamiliar with our society will think we are literally talking about left field in a baseball stadium.

Now, Augustus Caesar decreed that no Roman soldier should be married, especially when out in the empire. So, soldiers took male slaves and had them as their "pais". Pais is a Greek word that is literally translated as "boy" or "favored son". However, the IDIOM of the day meant "lover".That comes from learned men in Greco-Roman idiomology, anthropology, etc.

When the Centurion came up to Jesus and told Him that his "pais" was sick, what did Jesus do? He said, "I will come." Now, being within the Greco-Roman culture as most Jews were, since Judea was part of the Roman Empire, Jesus knew exactly what the Centurion was saying. He came out to Jesus. And, when he told the Lord that all He needed to do was to say the word, his pais would be healed.

Jesus blessed the Centurion for his faith. He told everyone there that He had never seen such faith, even in all of Israel. And, the pais was healed that same hour.

There is your example of ONE biblical acceptance/approval/tolerance and, yea, even BLESSING. And, it was Jesus Himself Who did it.

Now, again, I ask you to go and read my blog. Maybe, then, you will understand that the Western church misinterprets the FEW verses that even remotely mention homogenital intimacy.

P.A.
05/23/2012 4:27pm

Tymmy....Your example is TOTALLY whack regarding homosexuality!!! 1st: Jesus healed a person and praised the soldier for his faith! That is ti! 2nd: the greek word coud alsp stand for, as it literally means "favored son". Gay used to mean happy! Just because homosexuals choose a "word" for their action, as you stated about you left feild, he could be the same if he were way off base too!!!! That does not mean that "pais" was his boy/ male lover! C'mon Tymm, slave owners also had sex with female slaves and maybe with a woman in general without being married!!!! Maybe the sick person was....HIS SON!! 3rd: Implying that Jesus healed a homosexual does not mean He blessed the person's sexual actipns. He healed a person, not bless homosexuality! 4:th Show me some scripture that you all scream is there... you can't because it is NOT there!

05/23/2012 4:51pm

PA:
I know that pastor in the article was wrong to say some hateful things about homosexuals (violence) but It's really sad when people who call themselves Christians think sin is ok. Do they read God's word (Bible)? It's scary, most of these people here call themselves Christians, what do other people have to say who dont call themselves Christians. Christians should stand up for the Lord's word. What will the future be like if it's this bad now? I know their is a verse in the Bible that talks about people thinking evil is good and good is evil. I'm glad I'm saved and I hope the rapture happens soon because the world is waxing worse and worse. Scary! I feel sorry for the youth coming up. People don't want to hear the truth of the Bible (I'm not talking about the NC Pastor in the article, he obviously has a hateful attitude and needs to repent if he is saved or get saved).

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05/23/2012 5:20pm

I dont claim to be a genius, I'm just a simple average person who doesnt have all the answers to some of these debates but the Lord's word is all I need and is the truth. I don't need to read any books on sexuality, the Bible is all I need. I hear a lot of people trying to justify homosexuality but it is sin, God doesnt justify it. Please repent of it and ask Jesus to help you with it. I think some of you people here that think Christians are closed minded about homosexuality are closed minded about God's word. God's word is foolishness to those that are perishing. I see a lot of people twisting scripture to justify sin, homosexuality as well as other sin. The true church needs to speak out agaist unrightiousness and stand for Jesus, God help our country if we don't. I love homosexuals and pray God will help those in that bondage, I don't have that struggle but we all have sins that we struggle with Christian or not and we need Jesus to help us, ask him. (needgod.com) How bout donating money to an organization like Exxodus International that helps people come out of that lifestyle or a Pro-Life organization or some other godly ministry. Here are a few examples that I think are good: Tthe Berean Call , The Way of the Master or some Godly neighborhood church that is trying to reach the lost for Christ and may be struggling. How about some poor family in your neighborhood that needs help, foster care etc......

Bruce Harold
05/24/2012 4:51pm

Do you think that God wrote the Bible? Wasn't it actually written by men, as long ago as the Bronze Age, who had no understanding of human sexuality, not to mention DNA, the human zygote, genetics, etc.? There is no nexus between morality and sexual orientation. It's all right to have a fifth grader's understanding of the Bible - when you are in the fifth grade. In the 21st century there is no excuse for taking the Bible out of context and ignoring the scientific reality of human sexualit. If all else fails, you could tryactually talking with some LGBT persons - and clergy. There is no "sin" in being LGBT, just as there is no "sin" in being left-handed or epileptic. About 11% of the human population on planet earth has always been LGBT, and always will be.

05/23/2012 5:53pm

P.A.

Thak God for you and the wisdom he's given you to answer all these comments being thrown at you. Keep it up with love. You have a lot of patience with people. God will bless you. See you in Heaven someday. Thank God this world isnt all their is.

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Serena
05/23/2012 12:30am

Even though I'm Wiccan, I have "donated in his name". Be at peace my Christian Brothers and Sisters! Goddess bless all of you for all the amazing energy and thought put into this! Stay strong!

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Jeff Priela
05/23/2012 1:00am

We have a Pride Event in June. I shall make sure that those that come to our stall make a donation to strike back at this individual.

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tuesday
05/23/2012 1:24am

this yearly conference is focused on helping to specifically include transgender individuals in communities of faith. http://transfaithincolor.org/sponsors.php

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tuesday
05/23/2012 1:43am

another wonderful organization is tranzmission prison project, TPP is an all volunteer, all donation organization that supports LGBTQ prisoners by sending them books and finding pen pals for them. contact and support is extremely important for such an incredibly marginalized population. you can find the fundraiser here: http://www.indiegogo.com/Tranzmission-Prison-Project-Fundraising-Campaign
(TPP is also based in NC). there are a lot of wonderful queers and allies who are making amazing things happen in NC, and we will keep on keepin' on, regardless of the hate spewed by wounded hearts. <3

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michael grimes
05/23/2012 4:13am

all of u have great ideas that i read =quite a few=do not have time to read them all=one thing that needs to be done is see that some of the members of his congregation find out that he is getting all these thank you letters for "his" donation PS i am straight but believe in that thing about loving your neighbor=not judging=the golden rule=u know the things that are apparently not in the Bible he reads

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Joe
05/23/2012 4:22am

I think you should add the incredible In The Life Media to your list. They present the voices of "everday" LGBT Americans by producing the country's most honored and respected LGBT documentary journalism on television and online.

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05/23/2012 5:00am

I just donated to the Tennessee Equality Project! Great plan; I hope he gets mountains of thank you notes for his support of LGBT rights.

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ltouart
05/23/2012 6:16am

Here's another good group: Mobile Area Aids Awareness
http://www.masshelps.org/help.htm

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05/23/2012 7:55am

Donated to Association of Welcoming and Affirming Baptists in Pastor Worley's name. Feels exhilarating!

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DieGo 2012
05/23/2012 9:21am

I'm pretty sure he would be "again'" this, but could someone make a donation to a grammar school for him too? Perhaps one that helps reduce accents.

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Prof Knight
05/23/2012 11:46am

I resent the comment about accents. I am an English professor who was born and grew up in North Carolina. I have a distinctive Western NC accent flavored by a Charleston, SC drawl since I lived there 15 years. Regional accents are not bad, nor are they an indication of lack of education or stupidity. Poor grammar, on the other hand, is something that makes me crazy, and I hate to hear Southerners use their regional identity to justify lazy grammar.

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Hi
05/23/2012 9:24am

I'm pretty sure he would be "again'" this but maybe add a grammar school to the list.

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Tymm Conner
05/23/2012 9:29am

It's going to have to be next week when I get paid, but I'm going to donate to Lambert House, here in Seattle. It's a wonderful organization that helps LGBT youth and their parents through the coming out process. I've done a few shows, (I'm a drag queen), to raise money for them before. Excellent organization and beautiful people.

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David
05/23/2012 9:37am

I'm going to make a donation in his name to my (Jewish) temple's building fund.

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Chelsea
05/23/2012 10:18am

If anyone from NC would like to donate to a great organization, that I am sure would make his blood boil, Charlotte has an amazing organization called RAIN (Regional AIDS Interfaith Network) and *GASP* it works in CHURCHES to do AIDS and sex education!!! It is a very worthy cause and would be a great place to donate.

www.carolinarain.org

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Mary
05/23/2012 10:24am

Just sent $50 to www.equalitync.org
This is amazing to turn hate into such positive action AND have some fun along the way!

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05/23/2012 10:27am

If someone did to you what you are suggesting be done to this pastor, it would be considered a hateful act. Though you certainly have a point, and the Rev in question has made some tragic and disappointing errors, to post his name, address, and telephone number is irresponsible. Two wrongs have never succeeded in making something right. This may seem like a way to get back at this man but it is simply inappropriate action. How might he be loved in such a way that new insight and perspective will emerge for him? Or do you think that there is another path to achieve change than to love the unlovable completely and without compromise?

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Tymm Conner
05/23/2012 10:41am

Ummm...You're kidding, right? First, there's a lot of good from this. Organizations that are actually helping are getting funded. Second, maybe this hate-mongering, ignorant man who misinterprets the Bible to suit his own negativity will wake up and realize that the verses he uses do not say what he is making them say. Third, maybe he will also understand that calling for the killing of someone who is different than he, is about as un-Christ-like as murdering someone in cold-blood.

Then again, maybe not.

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Mary
05/23/2012 10:57am

Could not have said it better Tymm...... also remember we are talking about a guy who wants to eliminate all gay people (although he is too stupid to realize his method will not work). Compare that with some unwanted mail that will do a little good. Also when you put your sermon on a website for the world to see you are inviting a reply....via the USPS in this case!

P.A.
05/23/2012 2:59pm

C'mon Tymm... Biblically enlighten us regarding God's blessing and approval of homosexuality. Just what exactly DO those verses mean?

Ed Huber
05/23/2012 10:56am

Isn't there something that says as a Christian, you should donate XX% of your annual income to non-profits, or some such nonsense?
Well, we are just helping him get closer to god ;)
Obviously he needs all the help he can get....

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Teevan
05/23/2012 11:24am

Alan- Churches' addresses are public information and so are their phone numbers so there's nothing wrong or irresponsible about that.
This is a brilliant and positive response to a hateful person. I'm donating and I think you should to if you're not a hateful person.

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Heather
05/23/2012 10:41am

Please add Equality NC to your list of organizations - they are working within the state he is spreading his hate.
http://www.facebook.com/equalitync

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Ann Marie
05/23/2012 10:58am

Almost the must fun I ever had making a small donation (to Equality NC).

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Muriel Roberts
05/23/2012 11:08am

I'm sending my donation to Standing on the Side of Love, the Unitarian Universalist campaign. http://www.standingonthesideoflove.org/

Wish there were a way to total up all the dollars this man has generated for LGBT causes!

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David Pollack
05/23/2012 11:23am

Can you include Time Out Youth, a wonderful LGBTQ youth organization for teen support here in Charlotte?

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05/23/2012 11:53am

Youth OUTlook WNC, Inc is a youth leadership and advocacy nonprofit based in Asheville and serving LGBTQ youth in Western North Carolina. Can you include us in the list also?

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05/23/2012 12:10pm

Thank You for the article, he response and the outpouring of support. When I was growing up I knew in my heart what being Christian meant but I never saw it happening in a Church. Now I see it in action.

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Tim Mckeithan
05/23/2012 12:36pm

Another contribution to Equality NC in honor of preacher Worley! I bet he never dreamed he was doing such good for the Lgbtq cause.

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05/23/2012 12:38pm

Great article, Rev. Sandlin. Thank you! http://wp.me/p1se8R-2Rk

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Jane Dodd
05/23/2012 1:07pm

Another homophobe; "Thou dost protest to much" must be still in the closet......

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Karen
05/23/2012 1:18pm

What a wonderful idea - such perfect irony! MLK and Gandhi would be so proud!
TWO - Truth Wins Out will be hearing from me shortly with another donation.

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Chris May
05/23/2012 1:44pm

Add another donation to Equality NC to the tally. Great idea!

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Leigh
05/23/2012 1:47pm

I sent one. Except I sent one in an envelope so it would not be overlooked. I put it too his attention then I put RE: Donation for support. Hopefully he will open and not disregard. At the end of the letter I put may you find God. On the outside I put God Bless you. Thank is what my Gold told me to do. I feel better now that I have done that. Thanks.

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05/23/2012 1:57pm

I LOVE this conversation. As a board member of the LGBT Center of Raleigh I noticed that we just received a donation in Pastor Worley's "honor", and now I think I know why! Thank you for this brilliant idea, and please add the LGBT Center of Raleigh as one of the worthwhile organizations who would benefit greatly from the good will generated. This is how a community comes together to overcome the bigotry and hatred of those who would do it harm.

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Anneke Dubash
05/23/2012 1:58pm

I am sending a donation to a Unitarian-Universalist church in his area. They will hopefully send him material on just what a "loving, inclusive" church is.

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Rev. Scott
05/23/2012 2:03pm

My wife and I just contributed to Equality NC. I think this is a great way to respond -create good while not fanning the flames of hate!

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Tim
05/23/2012 2:16pm

"... “lesbians and queers” should be locked up inside an electrified fence until they die out. ... LGBT folk have been reproducing and creating little baby homosexuals and if all the “lesbians” are inside one fence and all the “queers” are inside another, well, they could not longer reproduce and hence - no more homosexual babies."

Wow! a preacher who actually advocates that homosexuals are born instead of being homosexual by choice...Amazing!

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05/23/2012 6:42pm

I was just about to write that. Such a profound point. Created homosexual by god is going to be tough for him to argue. I played at a church last Sunday where the pastor said something to the effect of, "I could go on about abortion and same sex marriage, but that doesn't apply to anyone here." I thought to myself, "it might, but I'm glad you have the sense to keep your bigotry to yourself." I'm sure this pastor is ranting to similarly minded individuals with the exception of the person who exposed his hatred and ignorance. Sermons on a Sunday with him must be soooooo much fun. *rolls eyes*

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05/23/2012 3:33pm

I just contributed to Lutherans Concerned. Oh, what a delightful idea. I was sick over this entire situation. I feel like I've done something about it. Thank you, Rev. Mark. Lots of good may come out of this sad, dangerous man's evil mind and black heart.

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Cheryl Smith
05/23/2012 4:30pm

Many people who agree with this preacher are not educated and ignorant so when you attempt to explain homosexuality make sure you keep it simple..

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Gloria deGeare
05/23/2012 5:37pm

Open letter to Mr. Worley

I saw that you spoke in church recently, and apparently have often, about gay and lesbians, how they ought to be treated -- it prompted me to write you this very heartfelt message.

You know, when I was young, going to my little country church, they taught that everyone - EVERY ONE was brought into this world a gift from God, created in HIS image. They taught acceptance, to love one another...regardless of our religion, race, status in life, physical differences, EVERY DIFFERENCE; God gave us each other for a reason. Unconditional love - our goal to give, so we can also receive it. None of us is perfect - so in accepting THAT, we all require unconditional love (acceptance and tolerance when needed) - so we were to give it..and strive to in spite of all of life's and our human weaknesses.

We were instructed to love one another as we love ourselves. To think before we act - to consider the other person's feelings - to walk in their shoes - before we judge or hurt one another by our own inaccurate assessment of their life. Who were WE to judge?

Especially: That each of us is born into this world EXACTLY as we are meant to be. EXACTLY. There was/is such a thing as 'predisposition'. We need to acknowledge that if we are accepting that God has a plan from us from conception - then guess what? He has already decided our gender, hair and eye color, what we'll be like, and who we will be drawn to to love and care for when we are on this Earth. We are Predisposed (genetically imprinted) to be loving, caring, nurturing God-like creatures, created in HIS Image (that means every atom and molecule in us is Predefined By God...) It's the combination of that predisposition (God's imprint, life path, all on our genes...), environment, nurturing, and our own free will that makes us, ultimately, who we become as human beings. It is by God's choice that a child or a sister or a friend or a neighbor loves someone of the same gender. It has never occurred to me to question their choices - but honestly, to admire their strength to accept themselves and NOT feel them less worthy because they are "different" - they choose to 'turn the other cheek' - to live their life to the fullest -as God intended - I admire that strength in the face of adversity -- isn't that what we're taught to do from childhood? I was.

Last time I looked for it, or consulted with my pastor or faith advisers, there wasn't anything in the Bible that said we Must go against the way we were born, no Requirement to change yourself to FIT IN to some other definition of what others think one should be 'like,' (and were instructed by counselors to reject people in our lives who needed us to change to be loved - reinforcing that we were worthy and deserved to be loved just the way we were made by God) We were to accept ourselves, our differences, and, relying on God's love and direction, be who we were DESIGNED by God to be -- I love that.

Just loving messages were found - no rejection or ridicule for being different. God said He loved ALL of us. ALL. That means he is giving acceptance, and love, to EVERY ONE. Just the way they were born, Designed by Him to be. And, also, promised that all who come to him will be accepted and loved by Him -- I know a LOT of gay and lesbian Christians.

So with that, where does any one have the 'God given right' to judge? I don't think we (humans) were given the 'right to judge' - as humans flawed with non perfect views, differing personal opinions and all that aside, sure we think on those lines, but, as God's representatives (and anyone by way of leading an organized religion is setting themselves up as God's representatives) - NO. God doesn't give any one the right to do that.

I was taught "Judge not least ye be judged". They taught us that every person will be brought before HIM to answer for their life. - Hence, the "judge not least ye be judged" (some 'religious representatives' seem to have forgotten that when they pass judgement on those who are different from themselves or don't fit into their preconceived ideas of what is 'right')

In other terms - we should do our best to love and accept each other because some day our actions, our loving and acceptance of one another (or the lack of) will be judged by HIM -I don't know about you, but it took a lot of working on myself to find the ability to truthfully give forgiveness, acceptance, tolerance, and love another for, and sometimes, in spite of, our differences, transgressions, etc..

I was taught that God gave mankind free will (to make hurtful choices against one another - to willfully choose to break commandments). He also gave us challenges (illness, violence against us, heartache...) so we would learn that we will be brought to better places - even our suffering has lessons to be learned. That not only will He bring us through something He Brings us to, but will give us joyful experiences on the other side - which begins with the knowledge t

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Julie
05/23/2012 5:44pm

Beautifully said, Gloria!

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Gloria deGeare
05/23/2012 7:34pm

thanks. I have a lesbian daughter who I couldn't love more. Having a lesbian sister, I was prepared with some knowledge of what life might present her by way of acceptance (or persecution). My only way to live is by example - to try to educate, change minds of those we can, accept those we can't, forgive the hatred and damnation from those not informed - and always pray to know the difference - and when to shut up....which at times can be most difficult.

Christianity and being gay or lesbian, transgender or bi - don't have to be on opposite sides - as my sister says - they just have to believe in one concept - that God is Love - and the rest will fall into place ... I wish it were that simple but constantly hope and pray that someday it might be.

good luck to you - live a fabulous life.

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Gloria deGeare
05/23/2012 6:20pm

(repeating the last paragraph and continuing - in hopes Worley gets it)

I was taught that God gave mankind free will (to make hurtful choices against one another - to willfully choose to break commandments). He also gave us challenges (illness, violence against us, heartache...) so we would learn that we will be brought to better places - even our suffering has lessons to be learned. That not only will He bring us through something He Brings us to, but will give us joyful experiences on the other side - which begins with the knowledge that with faith, we will get through anything - and be better for it later....

He also put in our lives challenges to be faced, accepted, tolerated and dealt with through compassion and understanding - babies born with mental or physical disabilities, injured veterans, mixed races, victims of inhumane crimes struggling to find their way back to life, people with physical deformities, not to mention people whose free will makes them violent transgressors against women, children and people of lesser strength, people who sit as if THEY made all the rules and carry a "do as I say, not as I do" action in their lives (ever known a church going person to cheat on a spouse? sure you have) and a whole lot more who make it difficult to accept or find a place to 'be at peace with'

I've asked myself why would He do that, several times. in my life.

Know what the answer was? So that those who rise above the challenges God put in their lives, live an example of love and compassion - HIS LOVE - to show the rest of us we need not fear differences but embrace them. We need not fear challenges - because not only will be bring us through them - but He will bring us Glory on the other side of them. We'll be richer for facing adversity, challenges, and making it through, rising above them. That makes every challenge I face much better. And those I struggled with earlier, now easier to see the learning gained and see that yes, life IS sweeter having gone through those things.

Those born by Predisposition are gay or lesbian or another "group" that some pick on - were born the way God designed them to be. It was not His plan to design a divine being, one in his image of a loving and compassionate being - then damn them to Hell on Earth or to a sorrowful afterlife for the way HE made them.

Now, I'm sure God likes a good laugh now and then too - cats chasing dogs, butterflies whose spread wings have scary faces on them - things in nature that are, by nature, beautiful - it's all in our perspective. But, creating HIS creatures, gay, lesbian, transgender, black, white, a variety of religions - is NOT a "HA" moment - These are NO accidents - God is perfect. He doesn't make accidents, nor mistakes. He LOVES. Always. Every One. Every way they Are. Now and Always.

I Love my God. He is a giving, positive, supportive, loving, compassionate, accepting God who teaches each of us every day how to love one another better.

I'm not so sure about your 'god' but he sure as hell isn't MINE.

A human born into this world, as God intended, who is predisposed to love someone of the same gender can no more change themselves than someone born with one leg can grow another. Some things we are born with, we can change - hair color, contacts for our eyes - but things that have to do with our God given heart and soul - should be embraced, for the differences mean facing challenges from others who are ignorant (lack of understanding) or judgmental.

To that, the 'holier than thou' judgement and damnation of people with any difference, who choose not to understand, not to accept, not to love as God would, I say, "Father, forgive them for they know not what they do"

PS I'm not judging you and I am not just expressing my opinion - I am just showing you that MY God is a loving God - and your beliefs and actions are flat out wrong.

I pray God forgives you for misrepresenting Him. I pray you find a way to accept others different from you, compassion to understand and love for them just the way they are.

Now that I have forgiven you for your ignorance, misrepresenting the God I know, and being a less than compassionate person, I can accept who you are, pray for your soul to heal, and will choose to hope you find an awakening in your soul.

This letter is brought to you by a mother, sister, friend and neighbor to the most beautiful God created people on earth - who just happen to find love in their own gender...as God intended them to do.

Gloria

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Judy Rudolph
05/23/2012 7:32pm

If you are looking for another way to make the point, Susan Wilson is a lesbian running for a seat in the North Carolina House of Representatives. A donation to her campaign in his name would be a zing to him and help overturn this hateful Amendment. Here is the link to her website: http://www.wilsonfornchouse.org/

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JR
05/23/2012 7:49pm

Just made a donation to Campaign for Southern Equality. What a great idea! Kudos to you!

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Melissa A. Llanas
05/23/2012 7:51pm

I would like to make a donation on behalf of Pastor Sean Harris, too. Can anyone locate and respond to me with his church mailing address?

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Dick Morrill
05/23/2012 8:14pm

I hope he recycles.

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Catherine
05/23/2012 9:12pm

Just sent my donation to Southern Arizona Lesbian Gay Bisexual and transgender community center, hee hee... We could also send him "Jesus was not a Homophobe" t-shirts.

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scott
05/23/2012 11:49pm

I want to give to NC orgs since they seem to be on the front lines...PFLAG, NC Equality, and some NC youth org.

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scott
05/23/2012 11:55pm

does anyone know of a suicide prevention org in NC?

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05/24/2012 4:16pm

Hey Scott,
OUTright Youth of Catawba Valley is in Pastor Worley's backyard and we'd welcome your donation to help us continue to provide LGBT youth in our community with a safe environment to get together and just be themselves.

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Anneke Dubash
05/24/2012 12:06am

I sent a donation to a Unitarian universalist Fellowship in North Carolina.

Thank you haters. You just make the resolve of those who support and love our LGBT friends to stand up to your ignorance and bigotry.

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Anneke Dubash
05/24/2012 12:08am

.. not to mention our LGBT family members.

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Deborah
05/24/2012 2:33am

Just donated to The Trevor Project!

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05/24/2012 5:04am

I wanted you to see this video from a church sign debate we had on
election day here in Wilmington, NC.

http://www.wect.com/story/18211111/church-sign-sparks-controversy-at-polling-location

Also, last year we dealt with another church video 2-

http://www.wwaytv3.com/video/2011/08/protest-held-after-sign-outside-of-church-tells-gays-to-turn-or-burn

I'm a part of various groups as you can see listed with my name below..

As the Vice President for Wilmington Pride, a group that is dedicated
to supporting individual and community development through social and
educational activities, raise awareness, promote equality, facilitate
supportive services and groups, identify needs and advocate for
resources benefiting the diverse population of GLBTQIA in the Cape Fear
region.

AS a Non-Profit, we are always in need of money also - I was hoping you
may be willing to add our group onto your donation list if possible.

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Joe Pesci
05/24/2012 8:03am

Abolish religion. Problem solved.

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Mary
05/24/2012 12:02pm

Not all churches are bad, a lot of charitable work is done in churches. Many churches are gay affirming, if you bother trying to find somewhere to worship. I am a gay Christian and refuse to let these right wing churches to get in the way of what is right about many religions. I just believe it's more complicated than just to say let's get rid of religion.

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Sam
05/24/2012 9:40am

Donation in Rev. Chuck's honor to Garden State Equality.

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Darren
05/24/2012 9:49am

$5.00 donated to Blue Ridge Pride. I got $100.00 and I want to make it as painful as possible for the Irreverend Worley.

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Darren
05/24/2012 9:55am

$5 more to the Campaign for Southern Equality. This is fun!

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05/24/2012 10:06am

Way to go Darren! Keep up the good work!

05/24/2012 4:22pm

Way to go Darren! Please consider making a donation in Pastor Worley's name to OUTright Youth of Catawba Valley. We're right in his neighborhood and provide a safe environment for LGBT youth to get together with their friends and allies. We also work to educate people in our community on the aspects of awareness, understanding, acceptance in inclusion of LGBT youth.

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Lee
05/24/2012 6:42pm

Center for Homicide Research

http://homicidecenter.org/about-us/

Great LGBT Org!

Jeff Barber
05/24/2012 10:52am

I guess God showed hatred against Sodom and Gomorrah! You all keep it up!

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Jeff Barber
05/24/2012 10:54am

America is next!

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Tymm Conner
05/27/2012 7:37am

Please, please, please tell me that in this day and age you aren't REALLY one who still believes the fairy tale of Sodom and Gomorrah's destruction had something to do with homosexuality. I think you need to study a little on your own and not listen to ignorant people. Let me help you get started...Take a Strong's Concordance and look up every verse that mentions the cities--there are a few. Then read them. IF there is a verse that says the cities were destroyed SIMPLY because of homosexuality, or if there is a verse that remotely mentions same-sex sin as being the reason, then you can blather on about it. If not, keep quiet and don't join in on a grown-up conversation.

Scott Pollard
05/24/2012 1:06pm

I, too, made a donation to PFLAG in Pastor Worley's honor. I like that they will send him notification of the gift and he will be added to their mailing and email lists. I hope my gift will help bring knowledge of PFLAG to anyone in his community who feels attacked by his vitriol.

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05/24/2012 4:10pm

Please consider adding OUTright Youth of Catawba Valley a local non-profit whose mission is creating a safe environment for LGBT youth and their allies and educating our community on awareness, understanding, acceptance and inclusion of LGBT youth. And we're in Pastor Worley's back yard! The kids face bullying at school and Pastor Worley and his congregation are just one example of the bullying from the pulpit that occurs in on a regular basis in this region of North Carolina.

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05/24/2012 6:21pm

This is a great way to help LGBT organizations. I donated to the Center for Homicide Research. They are the only non-profit in the nation that researches LGBT homicides!

"The Center for Homicide Research was initially incorporated as a nonprofit organization in 1999 under the name Minnesota Gay Homicide Study. The initial research project established information involving lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) homicide in Minnesota over the past 30 years; the first time a database of this kind has ever been created
In 2004, the Minnesota Gay Homicide Study changed its name to the Center for Homicide Research and expanded its mission to include all marginalized communities and underrepresented areas of homicide.

For over twelve years the Center for Homicide Research has been on the cutting edge of developing lasting resources on the subject of homicide, while also creating systemic change in data collection, law enforcement practices, and public policy construction."

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Bridget
05/24/2012 8:09pm

Brilliant article and brilliancy from so many more who expounded on it. It gives me hope to read this thread. Time to send Equality NC $100!

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Wayne
05/25/2012 12:01am

Thank you

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05/25/2012 2:22am

Sending small monetary donations to the reverends to show that hate is wrong, maybe in small way, may get them to stop and think.

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Michelle McBriarty
05/25/2012 1:31pm

THANKS MARK for taking my little idea and making it something so AMAZING!!!

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05/25/2012 4:43pm

THANK YOU Michelle. IT was your idea that got this who thing going. Such a BRILLIANT idea.

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Robert Huffman
05/25/2012 5:11pm

Basic Rights Oregon will appreciate the $25. Thanks, Pastor Worley!

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Jack
05/25/2012 9:49pm

OK, you talk so much about loving other people. But is it really love to call someone "stupid"? I don't think so. Jesus said if you call someone a fool you would be in danger of hell fire.

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05/25/2012 10:13pm

Jack, I'm sure if you re-read it you'll see that I call the logic used stupid (and it is). I very clearly make no statement about Pastor Worley's cognitive abilities. I simply don't know him well enough to do that.

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Tymm Conner
05/27/2012 7:57am

Jack...Jesus also said, "1 "Don't judge, so that you won't be judged. 2 For the way you judge others is how you will be judged -- the measure with which you measure out will be used to measure to you." (Matthew 7:1-2)

and, "15 "Beware of the false prophets! They come to you wearing sheep's clothing, but underneath they are hungry wolves! 16 You will recognize them by their fruit. Can people pick grapes from thorn bushes, or figs from thistles? 17 Likewise, every healthy tree produces good fruit, but a poor tree produces bad fruit. 18 A healthy tree cannot bear bad fruit, or a poor tree good fruit. 19 Any tree that does not produce good fruit is cut down and thrown in the fire! 20 So you will recognize them by their fruit. 21 "Not everyone who says to me, `Lord, Lord!' will enter the Kingdom of Heaven, only those who do what my Father in heaven wants. 22 On that Day, many will say to me, `Lord, Lord! Didn't we prophesy in your name? Didn't we expel demons in your name? Didn't we perform many miracles in your name?' 23 Then I will tell them to their faces, `I never knew you! Get away from me, you workers of lawlessness!'" (Matthew 7:15-23).

Judgment is not something that we, as humans have a right to do. That is for G-d. However, we ARE to be aware of our leaders and teachers. We, as teachers and preachers, are held to a much higher standard than everyone in the pews. For, we can lead a congregation astray with one sentence. Jesus came against the leadership NOT the everyday person. Those, He blessed. The leaders, He called, "Hypocrites," "white-washed sepulchres filled with dead men's bones", "a den of vipers", and "children of their father, Lucifer".

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Rachel
05/25/2012 9:58pm

BRILLIANT idea. Just made a (too-small) donation to Minnesotans United for All Families. And this is such a wonderfully adaptable strategy - I think I may use it over and over.... Thanks.

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Allen Corben
05/26/2012 4:22am

"A donation has been made to the Association of Welcoming and Affirming Baptists in honor of Pastor Charles L. Worley. Thank you for joining with us to advocate for the full inclusion of lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender persons within Baptist communities of faith."

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05/26/2012 5:43pm

How about AIDS Lifecycle...

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05/26/2012 8:32pm

Gays are the new blacks? Come on now, that's taking it way too far. Too compare homosexuality with slavery? Great article other wise.

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05/28/2012 8:09am

Barry, I actually didn't say that "gay is the new black." I said to some Southern churches it is. I don't think they should be treating the two the same, but in many ways they are.

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Kathleen VS
05/27/2012 10:10am

So far I have sent two donations - Standing On the Side of Love and Soulforce AND mailed two postcards to "Pastor" Worley. Since I'm an Episcopalian, I think the "Pastor" should join Integrity as well. I'll take care of that this afternoon.

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Michelle
05/27/2012 10:21am

Thank you Kathleen! I am also Episcopalian!!!!

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Katie N
05/27/2012 11:17am

Just to give credit where credit is due, this idea came originally from the Phelps-a-thon in which participants made donations to the organizations that the Westboro Baptist Church picketed.
<http://drivingequality.com/about/phelps-a-thon/>
<http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Phelps-A-Thon>
A brilliant idea for many causes, but especially for the WBC and also "Pastor" Worley.

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Katie N
05/27/2012 12:36pm

Mr. Worley seems quite misinformed about many things. As I receive information from the various groups I belong to, I will mail it to Mr. Worley. I think he could benefit from learning more about his sermon topics.

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Jess
05/28/2012 11:04am

Done and done! Made donations to two NC organizations and printed the letter for "pastor" Worley.... Oh he's just gonna LOVE it!

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06/08/2012 3:17am

Why didn't I think of this before? For what it's worth at this late date, a link to the sermon MY senior pastor preached on that fateful day (May 20):

http://www.st-andrew-umc.com/index.php/library/sermon/the-god-i-dont-believe-in

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Christen
06/13/2012 1:10am

Charles Worley just added on another donation to the Harvey Milk Foundation.

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01/13/2013 8:41am

He'll be getting an acknowledgement of a donation with the Queen's head on the stamp!

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